Monday, June 2, 2014

You are ‘The best of the best of the best’. Aren’t you?

High self-esteem or confidence level may not be hereditary but I am sure it can be detected at a very early stage. When kids are 7-8 years old, it completely reflects in them, so we should start taking care of it from the very beginning. Appreciate your kids and let them explore their own-self. ‘Yes I can do it’ is what you tell them.


People with high self-esteem take pride in what they do without even bothering about the result. The push of positive attitude along with confidence in attempting a difficult task itself makes them a winner. They hit a home-run even before stepping into the field. Isn’t it?


Now look at yourself into the mirror and say ‘I am the best’. You are not odd, different or inferior to anyone else. I repeat – you are not odd, different or inferior to anyone else. ‘Unique’ is what God has made you!! There in no one like you. Tell this to yourself every time, before performing a difficult task to boost your morale. Always take pride in what you do and who you are. It is important to value yourself to be successful. So, stop comparing yourself with others. They don’t give a damn to you because they have their own world. Stop wasting your time by poking your nose into their life and concentrate on being yourself. Don’t you think that knowing yourself is more important than knowing them? If you look around, you will feel it – the biggest reason people don’t value themselves is because they are busy highlighting the virtues of the people they think are better than them.

Value your relationships; it’s a must to socialize but if you show extra interest in somebody’s life, they will be much more interested in yours. So, do not cross that thin line. It is important to know your limits. Don’t change your attitude if you are richer or poorer than your friends, relatives or known ones because you never know you might also need their help someday in this small world.

Positive attitude is like a magnetic force. It pulls positive energy towards you; so, the more you have, the better the life would be. If you never thought much about it, let’s begin the chapter because it’s never too late!

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